I love Facebook and admit I spend a lot of time on there. It’s a personal space for me to talk with my friends and family. I’ve been noticing a lot of people have the “It’s Complicated” Facebook dating status. It got me thinking; why does a relationship have to be complicated? Better yet, why in the world do you want to be in a relationship that is complicated?
When I see/hear it’s complicated I immediately think that individual is in some BS type of situation they clearly don’t need to be in or it wouldn’t be complicated. What kind of BS situation am I referring to? Well, let’s see. I’m thinking of one of the following:
- Someone is involved with an individual that is married. [Sugar-daddy, Sugar-mommy relationships]
- You’re dating someone who isn’t quite ready for a commitment, but you are and you’re your hanging on hoping they’ll change their mind.
- You got cheated on (or you did the cheating) and now your relationship is on shaky grounds.
Why do they hang on to these complicated relationships? Are they waiting for a love fairy to come down and magically un-complicate the situation for them?
We are in the New Year , I propose to all those with these “It’s Complicated” Facebook dating status’; take a real hard look into what’s making their situation complicated and determine if this is a situation that is truly good for them and if it’s not; have enough balls to end it and move on.
I don’t know about you, but it’s my goal to live a life that is as uncomplicated as possible.
Who needs the added drama? I certainly don’t.